Can someone email me…

Mon, Apr 17, 2006
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…when someone invents a drug that I can take that will 1) stop the pain in my heart 2) stop me from being attracted to anyone 3) stop me from even thinking about relationships with guys, because frankly they are only in it for one thing anyway, so why bother?

kthnx.

kesuki says:

4/17/2006 at 1:16 am

perhaps it’s the type of men you are attracted to who are only in it for one thing?

I can do quite nicely without that ‘one thing’ although the more intimate a setting is the harder it becomes to ignore that ‘one thing’

But we both probabbly already know why I’d drive you crazy anyways 😉 Just saying, not every guy is out there to add ‘another one’ to his list.

Most likely you’re setting yourself up with the kinds of guys who see sexual conquest, especially of sucessful women as an accomplishment… rather than as some fall back to some more primative time when the power of the leader was determinesd soley on how many women he has to share his bed with.

Leons Petrazickis says:

4/17/2006 at 7:17 am

Sure thing. I shall email you forthright in that eventuality.

kshgoddess says:

4/17/2006 at 8:55 am

Sigh. I just celebrated my 3rd wedding anniversary. There are good guys out there. Really. Truly.

Not all of them “just” want into your pants. Mine wants me to be happy. Mine wants me to succeed. Mine wants to stay home some days and snuggle up on the couch and watch movies.

I was lucky. Benny fell into my life at just the right time, and he’s just the right person for me. It can happen. It does happen.

You just have to be open to it, and not push it away when it does.

I know it doesn’t make the hurt any less.
I know it doesn’t make the guy less of a jerk who hurt you.
I know it all sounds too good to be true, and too corny to be believe-able.

Good things happen. Really.

nescient says:

4/18/2006 at 9:49 am

It’s true. There are guys who are not looking for sex. There are some really nice guys who are in it for your mind…your personality…just hang in there =)

Jason MC says:

6/5/2006 at 12:42 pm

Don’t you think it is interesting that for many women the “good guys” just do not have that charisma that is attractive? Maybe it changes as one matures, but show me a man who will do anything for a woman and I’ll show you a woman who is not interested!

Whirly says:

6/17/2006 at 2:56 pm

They have it already…it’s called heroin…

William says:

7/7/2006 at 7:44 pm

I am a guy and I support my wife 100% as she does me.
But, we are old school, I am 56 and she is 54.
If you look for love, you will never find it, let it come to you.

Johny says:

10/19/2006 at 8:00 am

Hi, nice very nice page..!

Good luck !

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