I was talking with Clay Collins this past weekend (Clay is someone you should get to know, by the way) and he brought up an interesting point: Many people expect that they will be “discovered” by a “savior” and then–then!–everything will be set for them.
This is a dangerous attitude. It puts your fate in the hands of others. You expect to be discovered and then are crushed when no one pays attention to you. You put all your chips on the next interview, the next blog post, the next publicist or editor or meeting with a potential client. You set yourself up to be devastated when things don’t work out exactly as planned. And, if you’re not careful, this can quickly turn into bitterness at how “they” got discovered when you–the person with better talent! who is more awesome!–didn’t.
I’ve come pretty close to falling into this trap a hundred times or more. Let me show you a recent example: (more…)










Fri, Oct 29, 2010
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