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	<description>Erica Douglass, &#34;temporarily retired&#34; after selling a successful business at age 26, writes thought-provoking blog entries challenging you to change your life and daring you to become more successful.</description>
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		<title>By: manny</title>
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		<dc:creator>manny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 04 Oct 2009 19:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>nor crap nor perfect!

Hi Erica am new to your site but you already helped me so much with this post.

My Bio and story are similar to yours, i had a successful online business back in 2000 - 2003 and purchased my first home (i was about 22 and my parents couldn&#039;t believe i actually made $ online...), i sold it (since i was young and it was eating so much of my time, energy and sadly my relationship) , retired for a while to be with my wife, my first born and finish college

I took a job about a year after and didn&#039;t felt happy... so i realised i wanted to get back online so bad with many new ideas. Am a net geek at heart :)

ok, here comes your post idea!

in 2006 - 2007 i spent nearly a YEAR building and programming a website for a new local biz i had in mind, i wanted it to be perfect (i also thought i had the perfect idea...) After 12 months i got the &quot;damned&quot; thing out finally but to my surprise, competition had become fierced in my niche and there was little room for the new commer in this market + the crisis thingie was just starting to kick in :(

i felt like a failure and was depressed for a while only thinking: &quot;if i had launched 8 months before i would had a better chance&quot;

I realized how quick the net moves and how inexperienced i was at the &quot;marketing thing&quot;.

now am into a new project again and won&#039;t make the same mistakes ! i fell off the bike but am up

am 1 month into the project and won&#039;t let a 12 , 6 or even 4 months pass by this time. In a month or 2 i should be &quot;ready and lauched&quot; even if it&#039;s not as perfect as i envisioned it (but should get there in time ^^)!!

I must also thank the Linux community (specially ubuntu) for showing me a great example that this is indeed possible like you said. Ubuntu is a software project that has become so popular even if it&#039;s still far from perfect, but every 6 months they get better and thousands of new users.

you must already know everything about linux since you were in the server biz

Also Mark Shuttleworth the &quot;Internet Billionaire&quot; has been an inspiration to me. You might want to interview him some time :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>nor crap nor perfect!</p>
<p>Hi Erica am new to your site but you already helped me so much with this post.</p>
<p>My Bio and story are similar to yours, i had a successful online business back in 2000 &#8211; 2003 and purchased my first home (i was about 22 and my parents couldn&#8217;t believe i actually made $ online&#8230;), i sold it (since i was young and it was eating so much of my time, energy and sadly my relationship) , retired for a while to be with my wife, my first born and finish college</p>
<p>I took a job about a year after and didn&#8217;t felt happy&#8230; so i realised i wanted to get back online so bad with many new ideas. Am a net geek at heart <img src='http://www.erica.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>ok, here comes your post idea!</p>
<p>in 2006 &#8211; 2007 i spent nearly a YEAR building and programming a website for a new local biz i had in mind, i wanted it to be perfect (i also thought i had the perfect idea&#8230;) After 12 months i got the &#8220;damned&#8221; thing out finally but to my surprise, competition had become fierced in my niche and there was little room for the new commer in this market + the crisis thingie was just starting to kick in <img src='http://www.erica.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>i felt like a failure and was depressed for a while only thinking: &#8220;if i had launched 8 months before i would had a better chance&#8221;</p>
<p>I realized how quick the net moves and how inexperienced i was at the &#8220;marketing thing&#8221;.</p>
<p>now am into a new project again and won&#8217;t make the same mistakes ! i fell off the bike but am up</p>
<p>am 1 month into the project and won&#8217;t let a 12 , 6 or even 4 months pass by this time. In a month or 2 i should be &#8220;ready and lauched&#8221; even if it&#8217;s not as perfect as i envisioned it (but should get there in time ^^)!!</p>
<p>I must also thank the Linux community (specially ubuntu) for showing me a great example that this is indeed possible like you said. Ubuntu is a software project that has become so popular even if it&#8217;s still far from perfect, but every 6 months they get better and thousands of new users.</p>
<p>you must already know everything about linux since you were in the server biz</p>
<p>Also Mark Shuttleworth the &#8220;Internet Billionaire&#8221; has been an inspiration to me. You might want to interview him some time <img src='http://www.erica.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Debi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Debi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 27 May 2009 22:39:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m so glad I found your site, Erica - my mind is overflowing with your good advice! :-)  When I saw the picture for this post, I knew I had to read it: I actually &lt;b&gt;have&lt;/b&gt; cut grass with a scissor to try to make it perfect (&lt;i&gt;Did I just admit that?&lt;/i&gt;)

Your readers also offer excellent advice and I, too, will try to think in terms of “Progress, not perfection”, and “Done is better than perfect”.  Unfortunately, my ‘version’ of perfectionism can sometimes paralyze me from even &lt;i&gt;beginning&lt;/i&gt; a project because I know I won’t be happy with the result when finished, e.g., the inability to organize things around the house just the way I want them leaves a disorganized mess for everyone to see :-/

I think that’s exactly what would be seen if one could look inside my HEAD :-)

Such a useful post… Thanks,

Debi</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m so glad I found your site, Erica &#8211; my mind is overflowing with your good advice! <img src='http://www.erica.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' />   When I saw the picture for this post, I knew I had to read it: I actually <b>have</b> cut grass with a scissor to try to make it perfect (<i>Did I just admit that?</i>)</p>
<p>Your readers also offer excellent advice and I, too, will try to think in terms of “Progress, not perfection”, and “Done is better than perfect”.  Unfortunately, my ‘version’ of perfectionism can sometimes paralyze me from even <i>beginning</i> a project because I know I won’t be happy with the result when finished, e.g., the inability to organize things around the house just the way I want them leaves a disorganized mess for everyone to see :-/</p>
<p>I think that’s exactly what would be seen if one could look inside my HEAD <img src='http://www.erica.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Such a useful post… Thanks,</p>
<p>Debi</p>
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		<title>By: Shane</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 20 May 2009 19:23:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Check out 37signal&#039;s book Getting Real. It is a collection of essays that talk about making a successful web project. Several of them convey exactly what this post is about - put something out there, even if it&#039;s not 100%! Every project has the potential to be at 90% forever! Good luck with your new sites, I&#039;m eager to check them out when they launch (soon!)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Check out 37signal&#8217;s book Getting Real. It is a collection of essays that talk about making a successful web project. Several of them convey exactly what this post is about &#8211; put something out there, even if it&#8217;s not 100%! Every project has the potential to be at 90% forever! Good luck with your new sites, I&#8217;m eager to check them out when they launch (soon!)</p>
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		<title>By: ericabiz</title>
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		<dc:creator>ericabiz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2009 05:46:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Hertanto,

No, I don&#039;t really think that&#039;s the case. I mean, there may be that rare dude who says &quot;Man, I HATED that website design 6 months ago when they first started, so I will never use it,&quot; but there are so many more people in this world that it&#039;s really not even worth thinking about the couple who will remember. People&#039;s attention spans are really short. I thought I knew a lot of people when I ran my hosting company, but I bet maybe 5% or fewer of my current blog subscribers knew me then. So don&#039;t sweat it. Just get something out there and keep making it better!

-Erica</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Hertanto,</p>
<p>No, I don&#8217;t really think that&#8217;s the case. I mean, there may be that rare dude who says &#8220;Man, I HATED that website design 6 months ago when they first started, so I will never use it,&#8221; but there are so many more people in this world that it&#8217;s really not even worth thinking about the couple who will remember. People&#8217;s attention spans are really short. I thought I knew a lot of people when I ran my hosting company, but I bet maybe 5% or fewer of my current blog subscribers knew me then. So don&#8217;t sweat it. Just get something out there and keep making it better!</p>
<p>-Erica</p>
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		<title>By: Hertanto Lie</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2009/perfectionism-is-your-worst-enemy/comment-page-1/#comment-1733</link>
		<dc:creator>Hertanto Lie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 10 May 2009 19:13:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>What about &quot;you only have one chance to do a first impression&quot;? Do you think that&#039;s not relevant in this case? I&#039;m asking because I have the same perfectionism tendency but I always give myself that excuse to delay.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What about &#8220;you only have one chance to do a first impression&#8221;? Do you think that&#8217;s not relevant in this case? I&#8217;m asking because I have the same perfectionism tendency but I always give myself that excuse to delay.</p>
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		<title>By: Dave Doolin</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dave Doolin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 23:04:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Busy busy busy... how many projects?

Too many.  Good ideas come in floods, tsunamis.  Overwhelming.

Execute right now!

Speed of Implementation --- key to success!

When to quit?  Caffeine poisoning.  Sleeplessness.  Everything you always hated working for the man... realizing you&#039;re the worst boss you ever had!

Peter Drucker mastered the opportunity cost: ignore &quot;closure,&quot; an emotional weakness.  Know when to walk away.  Just walk away.  Leave it hanging.

Ok, back to the salt mine.

-d

ps: Great post!  Really resonated with me.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Busy busy busy&#8230; how many projects?</p>
<p>Too many.  Good ideas come in floods, tsunamis.  Overwhelming.</p>
<p>Execute right now!</p>
<p>Speed of Implementation &#8212; key to success!</p>
<p>When to quit?  Caffeine poisoning.  Sleeplessness.  Everything you always hated working for the man&#8230; realizing you&#8217;re the worst boss you ever had!</p>
<p>Peter Drucker mastered the opportunity cost: ignore &#8220;closure,&#8221; an emotional weakness.  Know when to walk away.  Just walk away.  Leave it hanging.</p>
<p>Ok, back to the salt mine.</p>
<p>-d</p>
<p>ps: Great post!  Really resonated with me.</p>
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		<title>By: Erica OGrady</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erica OGrady</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 11:05:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s all about &quot;Progress Not Perfection&quot;.  Easier said then done ;)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s all about &#8220;Progress Not Perfection&#8221;.  Easier said then done <img src='http://www.erica.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Christine</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2009 04:18:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m surprised, considering your past successful ventures, that you let yourself get pushed off course like that. Oh, I can see how it happens (we are always buzzing with new ideas), but you&#039;ve always struck me as the &quot;launch &amp; fix&quot; type, not the perfect before launch type.

I think the response you got back from the business women may have also been the fact that they might not be your market for InspiringInnovators. Their needs are different. For me, InspiringInnovators is something I would want to buy in on on a per-interview basis, but maybe not monthly. (I would love to see the Steve Pavlina interview.)  As far as Be The Authority - that is *awesome*. I don&#039;t care about more instruction on using Twitter &amp; Facebook, but I would love the SEO tricks portion.

Ultimately, no matter what you do, I know you&#039;ll come out on top. You are amazing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m surprised, considering your past successful ventures, that you let yourself get pushed off course like that. Oh, I can see how it happens (we are always buzzing with new ideas), but you&#8217;ve always struck me as the &#8220;launch &amp; fix&#8221; type, not the perfect before launch type.</p>
<p>I think the response you got back from the business women may have also been the fact that they might not be your market for InspiringInnovators. Their needs are different. For me, InspiringInnovators is something I would want to buy in on on a per-interview basis, but maybe not monthly. (I would love to see the Steve Pavlina interview.)  As far as Be The Authority &#8211; that is *awesome*. I don&#8217;t care about more instruction on using Twitter &amp; Facebook, but I would love the SEO tricks portion.</p>
<p>Ultimately, no matter what you do, I know you&#8217;ll come out on top. You are amazing!</p>
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		<title>By: Mitch</title>
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		<dc:creator>Mitch</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 25 Apr 2009 22:47:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You learned a lesson I had to learn many years ago.  I wanted to start a newsletter, so I wrote the first one and sent it out to people asking for their comments.  I had 10 people write back with comments on everything except the content.  Two even wondered why I was going to waste my time.

I decided to do it my way anyway, for two reasons.  One, I realized that every person wants to do things their way, to mold you into them, and that&#039;s just not going to happen.  And two, I had asked the wrong people.  Only two of those people ended up subscribing to my newsletter, which means that, apparently, the content I was writing wasn&#039;t for them in the first place.

Your initial idea was and is sound, but the women you approached wouldn&#039;t have been your audience, which is sad.  I&#039;m glad you&#039;re back on track, and now I know what&#039;s going on, since I just wrote something on your initial post from last February.  :-)

By the way, I think it&#039;s interesting that your anti-spam question only allows one word, as I tried to write &quot;yes I am&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You learned a lesson I had to learn many years ago.  I wanted to start a newsletter, so I wrote the first one and sent it out to people asking for their comments.  I had 10 people write back with comments on everything except the content.  Two even wondered why I was going to waste my time.</p>
<p>I decided to do it my way anyway, for two reasons.  One, I realized that every person wants to do things their way, to mold you into them, and that&#8217;s just not going to happen.  And two, I had asked the wrong people.  Only two of those people ended up subscribing to my newsletter, which means that, apparently, the content I was writing wasn&#8217;t for them in the first place.</p>
<p>Your initial idea was and is sound, but the women you approached wouldn&#8217;t have been your audience, which is sad.  I&#8217;m glad you&#8217;re back on track, and now I know what&#8217;s going on, since I just wrote something on your initial post from last February.  <img src='http://www.erica.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>By the way, I think it&#8217;s interesting that your anti-spam question only allows one word, as I tried to write &#8220;yes I am&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Deb Kolaras</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deb Kolaras</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2009 14:52:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A terrific read and thanks for sharing your story. I&#039;m working diligently to break my own bad habit of over-analyzing and over-scrutinizing things in my own business - just get on with it already! I advise clients on this all the times, &quot;The Cobbler&#039;s Shoes&quot; syndrome! Getting it out there actually allows you to test the market and see what it really wants, what it can bear; presumably we&#039;ve done our homework ahead of time and have a good idea, but until it&#039;s &quot;released&quot;, we don&#039;t know for sure. Keeping the best kept secret serves no one.

Oh, and I agree with membership content: if it&#039;s really want the audience wants, without having to wade through a bunch of ads, etc., they&#039;ll tell you with their purchases of same.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A terrific read and thanks for sharing your story. I&#8217;m working diligently to break my own bad habit of over-analyzing and over-scrutinizing things in my own business &#8211; just get on with it already! I advise clients on this all the times, &#8220;The Cobbler&#8217;s Shoes&#8221; syndrome! Getting it out there actually allows you to test the market and see what it really wants, what it can bear; presumably we&#8217;ve done our homework ahead of time and have a good idea, but until it&#8217;s &#8220;released&#8221;, we don&#8217;t know for sure. Keeping the best kept secret serves no one.</p>
<p>Oh, and I agree with membership content: if it&#8217;s really want the audience wants, without having to wade through a bunch of ads, etc., they&#8217;ll tell you with their purchases of same.</p>
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