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	<title>Comments on: Feeling Lonely, Depressed, or Underappreciated This Thanksgiving? Read This!</title>
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	<description>Erica Douglass, &#34;temporarily retired&#34; after selling a successful business at age 26, writes thought-provoking blog entries challenging you to change your life and daring you to become more successful.</description>
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		<title>By: CC</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2008/feeling-lonely-depressed-or-underappreciated/comment-page-1/#comment-1496</link>
		<dc:creator>CC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 01:26:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds a lot like fishing for compliments.  Perhaps you are unappreciated, and therefore lonely.  So what?  It happens to most of us.
Get new friends.  If that fails, get new hobbies, and I promise, new friends will follow.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds a lot like fishing for compliments.  Perhaps you are unappreciated, and therefore lonely.  So what?  It happens to most of us.<br />
Get new friends.  If that fails, get new hobbies, and I promise, new friends will follow.</p>
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		<title>By: http://notoriousseo.blogspot.com/</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2008/feeling-lonely-depressed-or-underappreciated/comment-page-1/#comment-1487</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 01:42:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great tip. Im making a list now.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great tip. Im making a list now.</p>
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		<title>By: ericabiz</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2008/feeling-lonely-depressed-or-underappreciated/comment-page-1/#comment-1494</link>
		<dc:creator>ericabiz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 01:00:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi all! Sorry I have been such a slacker on replying back in the comments. At least I have a good excuse...Richard and I have been working like crazy to try and get my new theme up and running! And FINALLY, it launched today! HOORAY!

Some awesome new things are in the new theme, which I&#039;ll talk about in a post tomorrow...but for now, some replies!

@Josh: Happy Thanksgiving, and I hope yours was a great one!
@Dave: That&#039;s great! I&#039;m glad to hear it helped you, too.
@Christy: Report back when you do it! I would love to hear more.
@Living Off Dividends: Great to see you over here...and now you don&#039;t have to have short conversations! This is an amazing tool for those who feel like you (and I) do when we pick up the phone...&quot;What am I doing again?!&quot;
@Jdearing, @Nina: Fantastic!
@Claude: Wow, an old IBI&#039;er! Hope to see you around these parts more often. Great story; thank you for sharing!
@Armando: You are always one of my favorite people!
@Cath: Crazy, huh? Someday you should come over here to the US and we should hang out. ;)
@Pace: Thank you! I&#039;m glad to see you here!

Thank you all again!
-Erica</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi all! Sorry I have been such a slacker on replying back in the comments. At least I have a good excuse&#8230;Richard and I have been working like crazy to try and get my new theme up and running! And FINALLY, it launched today! HOORAY!</p>
<p>Some awesome new things are in the new theme, which I&#8217;ll talk about in a post tomorrow&#8230;but for now, some replies!</p>
<p>@Josh: Happy Thanksgiving, and I hope yours was a great one!<br />
@Dave: That&#8217;s great! I&#8217;m glad to hear it helped you, too.<br />
@Christy: Report back when you do it! I would love to hear more.<br />
@Living Off Dividends: Great to see you over here&#8230;and now you don&#8217;t have to have short conversations! This is an amazing tool for those who feel like you (and I) do when we pick up the phone&#8230;&#8221;What am I doing again?!&#8221;<br />
@Jdearing, @Nina: Fantastic!<br />
@Claude: Wow, an old IBI&#8217;er! Hope to see you around these parts more often. Great story; thank you for sharing!<br />
@Armando: You are always one of my favorite people!<br />
@Cath: Crazy, huh? Someday you should come over here to the US and we should hang out. <img src='http://www.erica.biz/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
@Pace: Thank you! I&#8217;m glad to see you here!</p>
<p>Thank you all again!<br />
-Erica</p>
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		<title>By: Pace</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2008/feeling-lonely-depressed-or-underappreciated/comment-page-1/#comment-1486</link>
		<dc:creator>Pace</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Dec 2008 00:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Erica,

I love the new theme!  It&#039;s beautiful!

(Also, I love this post.)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Erica,</p>
<p>I love the new theme!  It&#8217;s beautiful!</p>
<p>(Also, I love this post.)</p>
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		<title>By: http://www.dontforgettowrite.org/</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2008/feeling-lonely-depressed-or-underappreciated/comment-page-1/#comment-1495</link>
		<dc:creator>http://www.dontforgettowrite.org/</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Nov 2008 00:48:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It all comes back to the law of gratitude and being in a place of perpetual appreciation...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It all comes back to the law of gratitude and being in a place of perpetual appreciation&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Cath Lawson</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2008/feeling-lonely-depressed-or-underappreciated/comment-page-1/#comment-1483</link>
		<dc:creator>Cath Lawson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 28 Nov 2008 11:57:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>LMAO here Erica - You&#039;re definitely my twin.  When I operated by business from an office, I used to have other people answer the phone.

And like you, since working at home, I have a real problem with the phone.  I don&#039;t even like answering it, never mind calling folk.  I don&#039;t know why I find it&#039;s so difficult, I guess I&#039;m just not used to doing it.

At first, it was ok, Stuart was working from home too, so he used to deal with any phone calls.

I think I might give your idea a try.  Doing things that make us feel uncomfortable is the only way to grow, I guess.

And it sounds like those phone calls really benefitted you.  Hopefully, you&#039;ll be able to hold onto that good feeling next time you need to make a call.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>LMAO here Erica &#8211; You&#8217;re definitely my twin.  When I operated by business from an office, I used to have other people answer the phone.</p>
<p>And like you, since working at home, I have a real problem with the phone.  I don&#8217;t even like answering it, never mind calling folk.  I don&#8217;t know why I find it&#8217;s so difficult, I guess I&#8217;m just not used to doing it.</p>
<p>At first, it was ok, Stuart was working from home too, so he used to deal with any phone calls.</p>
<p>I think I might give your idea a try.  Doing things that make us feel uncomfortable is the only way to grow, I guess.</p>
<p>And it sounds like those phone calls really benefitted you.  Hopefully, you&#8217;ll be able to hold onto that good feeling next time you need to make a call.</p>
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		<title>By: Armando</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2008/feeling-lonely-depressed-or-underappreciated/comment-page-1/#comment-1488</link>
		<dc:creator>Armando</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 17:27:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you are such an inspiration!Keep on keeping on girl, you rock!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you are such an inspiration!Keep on keeping on girl, you rock!</p>
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		<title>By: Claude Armstrong</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2008/feeling-lonely-depressed-or-underappreciated/comment-page-1/#comment-1490</link>
		<dc:creator>Claude Armstrong</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 15:51:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The best of Life is helping others with theirs. Erica, that&#039;s what I saw in IBI, back in 192, just one month after my wife of 25 years left me. I rep&#039;d IBI with a buddy and his wife for most of 1993, and it just amazed me how my little part of others&#039; lives helped them gain confidence, hope, and better living!

That was during the lowest year of my entire life!

Just yesterday, Thanks Giving Eve, my dear Mary Pearl was trying to call a once favored cousin who had caused a major hurt to Mary before I met her, to wish her a Happy Thanks Giving. She had lost the cousin&#039;s number, so she found one of the lady&#039;s children&#039;s phone number and tried to call, but it did not ring.

Than Mary asked me to try online to find the number, and I found one, but it was not verified with address, etc. So, Mary just called the number, cold.

In moments I heard her happy voice as she found her long-lost cousin, then called all the rest of the family to make re-acquaintance, and share her love!

This Internet thingy is blamed for being an impersonal barrier between persons, and that is true &quot;if&quot; the user intends it that way, BUT - what a blessing it can be for those who intend to use it for the benefit of others!

Thanks so much for your wonderful post to my e-mail about using the equally fear factoring phone to &quot;Let your fingers do the walking&quot;!!!

Claude in Puget Sound</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The best of Life is helping others with theirs. Erica, that&#8217;s what I saw in IBI, back in 192, just one month after my wife of 25 years left me. I rep&#8217;d IBI with a buddy and his wife for most of 1993, and it just amazed me how my little part of others&#8217; lives helped them gain confidence, hope, and better living!</p>
<p>That was during the lowest year of my entire life!</p>
<p>Just yesterday, Thanks Giving Eve, my dear Mary Pearl was trying to call a once favored cousin who had caused a major hurt to Mary before I met her, to wish her a Happy Thanks Giving. She had lost the cousin&#8217;s number, so she found one of the lady&#8217;s children&#8217;s phone number and tried to call, but it did not ring.</p>
<p>Than Mary asked me to try online to find the number, and I found one, but it was not verified with address, etc. So, Mary just called the number, cold.</p>
<p>In moments I heard her happy voice as she found her long-lost cousin, then called all the rest of the family to make re-acquaintance, and share her love!</p>
<p>This Internet thingy is blamed for being an impersonal barrier between persons, and that is true &#8220;if&#8221; the user intends it that way, BUT &#8211; what a blessing it can be for those who intend to use it for the benefit of others!</p>
<p>Thanks so much for your wonderful post to my e-mail about using the equally fear factoring phone to &#8220;Let your fingers do the walking&#8221;!!!</p>
<p>Claude in Puget Sound</p>
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		<title>By: Nina</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nina</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 14:22:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Happy Thanksgiving! Your blog inspires me so much. I also have trouble with the phone both for business and personal. I will try this!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Happy Thanksgiving! Your blog inspires me so much. I also have trouble with the phone both for business and personal. I will try this!</p>
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		<title>By: Jdearing</title>
		<link>http://www.erica.biz/2008/feeling-lonely-depressed-or-underappreciated/comment-page-1/#comment-1492</link>
		<dc:creator>Jdearing</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 13:08:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post Erica.  I also have great dread with the phone.  I will make a list today and pick up the phone.  Thanks for sharing your struggle.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post Erica.  I also have great dread with the phone.  I will make a list today and pick up the phone.  Thanks for sharing your struggle.</p>
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